Last month I turned 60, and I wanted to celebrate. I had already planned a trip to spend time with family and friends in the North Island, of NZ, but when one night I went to the Playhouse, a local venue for weddings and parties, I decided to have a big party after all.
My father, who I adored, didn’t make it to 60, he died at age 41 so it felt significant to me to have made it this far. It felt appropriate to thank people for their support over my lifetime.
I am grateful for those who have been with me in the highlights of life and the fun times.
And even more grateful for the friends and family who have been there for me through black times of depression, the times of stress with raising children, and those who have supported me in my career and in my hobbies.
I have learned so much over the years, and I love learning new things. On a recent strength finders course, I discovered that one of my strengths is learning! Over a 30-plus year career in Dentistry, there was so much to learn with technology changing and wonderful materials coming out over my practicing life to create beautiful smiles for people which I loved to do. More recently, I have once again picked up the guitar and started finger-picking lessons which I have really enjoyed. Presently I cannot play with a shoulder injury but I have been learning about songwriting this year and have written ten songs. It has brought me such joy. Also, of course, writing. Writing is something I do, but also part of who I am and I absolutely love stories!! When I see a wonderful story or read one, it thrills me so much!
Now at age 60, I have three grown children and two grandchildren. I am so proud of all my children. They are wonderful people, kind, and full of passion for life. They are all so wonderfully unique. I am also grateful for my extended family, and the journey through joys and heartaches.
At my birthday celebration, I felt seen and honored and it was amazing! Even though my son described my many interests as a Guinness book of Records number of mid-life crises. He always makes me laugh.
So what’s next for me? More learning and more challenges to come, of course. I have many thoughts and plans regarding stories and songs.
A message that I listened to this morning, talked about what people think about on their deathbed. And one thought was to live a life that was true to you. I certainly believe that at this time in my life I am truly living a life that reflects me. What about you? As we move into the new year, I think it is a good time to reflect and think about what we would like to do differently and what we would like to achieve.
And if anyone needs help to do this, I can recommend my sister Helen Corban who is a business coach and who has a holistic approach to life and business. You can contact her here.
I pray, dear reader, that you will know peace this coming year and for those who are experiencing milestone moments, that you too will feel seen and acknowledged. You are, after all, a child of the Most High God.
Psalm 139 13-14 For you created my innermost being, you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful.
I know that full well.
Let’s agree with God and live a life of passion and purpose this coming year.
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